Browsing Archive: January, 2010

Happy People Learned How to Be Happy

Posted by Billie Willmon on Tuesday, January 26, 2010, In : Attitude Adjustment 
Funny, isn't it, that infants quickly learn that their own smiley faces bring smiles back to them? Babies eventually learn, however, that their smiles don't always get the desired results from those previoously happy people. Although Baby learned the basics of how to win friends, influence people, and express positive attitudes with her smiles, she soon finds that crying loudly produces more immediate results (such as a dry diaper or a bottle) than smiling does.


So it is that shortly after ...

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Adapting Avian Attitudes

Posted by Billie Willmon on Tuesday, January 26, 2010, In : Attitude Adjustment 
I adore my "baby" brother; we've always enjoyed friendly banter over the decades. I sometimes am surprised how much alike we think on some subjects, yet how differently on others. One of the subjects on which we differ is the Texas State bird, the mockingbird.

My brother detests them. On full-moons they sing loudly all night long, keeping him awake, he says. If it weren't illegal to shoot them, my redneck bro would surely have made mockingbirds an endangered species ... at least in his area....

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Are you EARNING Your Self-worth?

Posted by Billie Willmon on Saturday, January 23, 2010, In : Self Worth and Self Esteem 
I have loved learning and teaching about self-worth, self-acceptance, and self-esteem. Yet,  an of us - myself included - can find ourselves attempting to earn our self-worth. It has been my experience that "doing for others"for overcoming low self-esteem often becomes a self-defeating task.

While I recently was working on a series of newsletters called "Seven Steps to Self-Acceptance," I realized I had fallen into the trap of measuring my own self-worth and self-esteem by the value I pr...

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New Years Resolutions and Neurolinguistics (aka “Don't Tell Me What to Do!”)

Posted by Billie Willmon on Saturday, January 2, 2010, In : Attitude Adjustment 
Having spent more than a few years teaching English, more than a few sitting in a pew, and MANY more years attempting to lose weight, I recently found myself struggling to understand why so many of us try so hard to keep our New Years Resolutions, but breaking them before February 1.


So, what can I do differently this year to expect different results?


Each January millions of well-meaning individuals swear off alcohol, tobacco, and calories, putting their trust in their determination/reso...


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About Billie Willmon Jenkin


Educator, Speaker, Presenter with a passion for empowering others to value themselves and others, recognizing that gifts are often disguised as problems; to celebrate our unique qualities, which make the human race amazing! Her youngsters' chapter book (The Knock-Kneed Cowboy) and two co-written best-sellers (more about them elsewhere) have given her the opportunity to connect with parents, youngsters, teachers, and groups, especially on the topic of self-acceptance and "pro-respect" (a healthy alternative to "anti-bullying")

 

  
  
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